Even the most accomplished Lothario wonders what he could be doing better between the sheets. Part of the reason for that is that there's no simple, consistent way to have good sex. No one move or position that works for everyone – a point many people really need to absorb – but there are some standard starting points that can help get anyone on the way to maximizing their pleasure (as well as their partner's). Therapist Don Etkes, author of Loving with Passion and founder of MaximizeSuccess.com, is a certified sex expert and has some straightforward suggestions for those looking to achieve the most fulfilling sex life possible.
Whether its through articles, diagrams, or porn, there are plenty of resources available to people who want some ideas for how to improve their sexual experiences. Etkes says that it's crucial to look at a lot of different resources because not everyone knows what they're talking about and much of the advice out there doesn't apply universally. Of course, a person's partner is likely their best resource. While moans and groans in the heat of the moment are somewhat informative, a sit-down talk is the most effective approach to understanding someone else's needs.
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