Learn New Moves
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Even people who don't think they have a signature move probably do. In fact, they probably have a lot of them. "Most men and women touch the way they touched their last partner," says Etkes. There's nothing wrong with trying what's worked before but it's not the way to optimize sexual pleasure. What works for one partner may completely turn another off. Specifically, Etkes says to be cautious about rough stuff, like hair pulling. Moves like that may drive one girl wild but cause another to kick someone out.