Even the most accomplished Lothario wonders what he could be doing better between the sheets. Part of the reason for that is that there's no simple, consistent way to have good sex. No one move or position that works for everyone – a point many people really need to absorb – but there are some standard starting points that can help get anyone on the way to maximizing their pleasure (as well as their partner's). Therapist Don Etkes, author of Loving with Passion and founder of MaximizeSuccess.com, is a certified sex expert and has some straightforward suggestions for those looking to achieve the most fulfilling sex life possible.
Satisfy the Most Important Sex Organ
Part of the reason why great sex can be a bit challenging is that it's not about focusing on just one area of the body. "The most important thing in sex is that the primary sex organ is satisfied for both men and women […] which is their brain," says Etkes. Sexual encounters do usually involve touching some very specific spots but, in the end, it's nearly all mental. This is, in part, why foreplay and romance can take sex from satisfying to spectacular.
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