Start With a Massage
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It almost seems too easy but massage is a great way to rev up a sexual encounter. Massages help people relax — which can mean the difference between great sex and no sex at all — and the skin-to-skin touching adds intimacy. Plus, massages can improve circulation, a vitally important function for successful sex. Etkes says that a back massage is a particularly smart place to start.