Although it's not exactly the most romantic part of doing the deed, lubrication is vitally important. For some, it happens naturally but there is no need to be embarrassed (or to feel insulted) if there seems to be a little too much friction. "The main thing is that you introduce this as something that will enhance your pleasure together," says Etkes. Being proactive about lubrication can make a world of difference and any awkwardness will be long forgotten once things get going.
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