Talk favorite positions.
In movies, couples have awesome, incredible sex and they never need to say a word. That is not how it works in real life. "A lot of people think that sex is magical and they should know instinctively what to do and that’s just not true," says Zebroff. Trying to guess what a partner wants can lead to an ill-informed, unremarkable romp — a sure-fire way to kill confidence. The temporary awkwardness of talking about likes and dislikes in the bedroom is nothing compared to that of trying a new technique that your partner doesn't want done.