Act like a vacuum.
Over-stimulating the clitoris can be just as bad as ignoring it completely. The clitoris is extremely sensitive, so sucking on it vigorously is generally not the key. "Don't believe the oafs claiming that it brings women to ecstasy," says Milrod, "it usually has them sprinting out of bed and screaming for dear life." Build intensity, pay attention to other areas of her vulva, and elicit feedback for better results.