Beg for oral sex.
It can be sexy to exert some control in your sexual activities, but don't take it too far. Porn may have taught you that it's standard to direct a woman's head during oral, but that is almost always uncomfortable and demeaning. It may not be your ideal, but even without your direction, oral sex is likely to still feel darn good. "Take your hands off her head, stop pushing, and enjoy the gentleness of a slow and sexy blow job," says Milrod.