Pull her hair.
Many people enjoy sex that's a little rough, including some hair pulling. Charging right into this, however, can be a big mistake. "Many sexual experiences (and relationships!) have come to a screeching halt because a guy ended up with a woman's weave or a clump of extensions in his hand," says sex researcher and licensed therapist Christine Milrod. You can discuss hair-pulling before you go too far, or you can just be cautious along the way. If you try a little tug and she pulls away, back off for now and shelve the topic for later.