The Importance of Relaxation
Talk to any sexologist and they will tell you that we need to stop focusing on orgasm as the end-all, be-all of sex. "That kind of thinking is not good," says Stubbs. "It's going to make it worse and harder for you to climax." This can be a fine line to walk to if you want to try and have multiple orgasms. In all situations, the best practice is to relax and enjoy. A person can have a particular goal or desire in mind when they jump into bed but that shouldn't take away from the overall experience.