Don't Make This A Fight
Different people are bound to have different sexual wants and needs. While it helps to talk about what you want in a mature and respectful way, it's also important to remember this is not something to take too seriously. "You shouldn't be fighting over this. This is supposed to be fun," says Radakovich. Go into these conversations ready to compromise rather than being concentrated on getting what you want. And don't be lighthearted about it, so long as you're not being disrespectful.