Let Her Relax
Feeling rushed into sex can be problematic, particularly for women. Not only is hurrying the act along likely to hurt the mood, it can also prevent optimal biological responses. Women need about 20 minutes to get fully aroused. This means you should engage in some foreplay but not progress too quickly. "The best sex is when she is excited but relaxed," says Radakovich. If your partner is fully aroused when you get to the main event it's likely to turn out better for both of you (and she's more likely to want to please you as well).