Stop Competing in the Bedroom
There are a lot of ways to have sex and be sexually satisfied. There is not one perfect method for sex and it is not a contest. "That whole competitive, macho thing — that this is something that you're either going to succeed at or fail at — is really the wrong kind of attitude to bring into the bedroom," says Ducharme. Have a good time and work with what you've got. And remember, intimate encounters do not need to involve intercourse.