Respect Each Other
Do not play the blame game with this issue. Instead of saying this is any one person's fault, work as a team with the goal of improving your shared sex life. This can be a little tricky since one person is often having a harder time. "Both feel it," says Jo-Ann. "I think usually, though, one person is really frustrated more than the other one is. That's what we tend to see." Although it may seem contrary, bringing this topic into the open can even out these feelings between partners.