It Takes Time
Men looking to give women the best possible oral sex experience should expect to put in some time. "I think the number one pitfall that people run into is thinking it's a 'wham, bam, thank you ma'am' kind of thing when it needs to be something with a little bit more investment," says Katz. You might be looking at 10, 20, 30 minutes (depending on your partner), so be ready. If you do want to take a break, don't be too abrupt about it. Instead, transition to something else, like kissing or massaging other parts of her body.