Work at It
Even if you are really into your partner and you two are great together, your sexual relationship can still be problematic. This is because sex in a relationship takes some real work. "Something that comes up a lot with couples is they expect sex is just going to be easy and come naturally," says Marin. "Some people don't always realize that you need to put effort into prioritizing it, into making enough time and a place for there to even be intimacy in the first place."