Don't Worry If It Doesn't Work
We all say silly, stupid things occasionally. This isn't a late-night Cinemax flick, and even those can be off-putting in the wrong light. Allison agrees, "Don’t beat yourself up if it doesn't work as well as you anticipated. Just try again next time. Besides, it will make for something to laugh about later." And remember: communicate. "Talk it about it over lunch the next day. Ask her how she felt about it. What she liked – or didn't like." If its really important to you and she isn't into it, you need to tell her because once again, communication is everything. So she isn't into putting on a nurse's outfit. Fine. Maybe she would prefer you play doctor. Or maybe she wants to be the doctor, instead.