"If you're not sure how dirty you should get or what to say, start mild. Whisper sweet something's in her ear. Remind her of a special moment you had together," Allison explains. "My advice to talking dirty, even if you're just starting out, is that it's got less to do with what you say, but rather how you say it." After some trial and error with your partner, you should be able to understand what they like and add to your sexual vocabulary.