Sex Before Sexting
Sexting is a form of foreplay and words can get a woman very turned on – or off. Start simple, don't get carried away, and leave space for what happens in the bedroom. If you haven’t slept with her yet, begin by letting her know how excited you are about her. A simple "I’m looking forward to later" is a tasteful way to begin. You can also ask if she's excited, too. If she replies with a smiley face, she might be too shy to play the game right now, but you can ease her in over time. Remember: Sexting, like sex, is mutual. You both have to learn each others' triggers and what turns the other on.
If you haven't actually done… it, go easy with the pre-game sexting. Tease her, tempt her, give a little taste of the evening, but no pictures of your penis for now (or really ever). Don't ask for or expect nude pictures if you haven't been together in the flesh. If she wants to send them, she will. And you will be one lucky man. Once you've slept with her, you will hopefully begin to understand her body and desires. After sex, a text that reads, "Mmm..." or “More. Soon,” is nice to see the next day.