Both: Being Unrealistic
Not all men enjoy the way a woman tastes down there. "The biggest problem is that men think that women should taste like flowers or autumn rain," says Cadell, "and the truth of the matter is, that's unrealistic." Couples should not address this issue by having her douche or use scented products down there because that could cause imbalance and infection. Bringing this up bluntly may not be wise either. What you can do is suggest bathing together before or during oral. For women, Cadell also advises a self-taste test, so you can know what your partner is experiencing.