Both: Navigating the Finish
Many men find swallowing very sexy — and quite a few women don't want to do this. "If a man wants a woman to swallow, then she has every right to say: you taste it first and if it's good enough for you, it's good enough for me," says Cadell. Even if you aren't down for this dare, don't harshly reject his request or express disgust. There are compromises available. You can fake it by using your hand as an extension of your mouth, you can spit (still might not be an option), or you can ask if he'd like to ejaculate somewhere else on your body.