Both: Sticking to a Routine
Even the most basic oral sex feels good for most people, but don't let that lull you into a boring routine. Oral is wonderfully versatile, and experimenting with it can be a healthy relationship activity. "I think oral sex games are really important," says Cadell. Use food in a sexy way (but not putting anything questionable inside a woman) or try out different flavored condoms. Give sex toys a whirl or see how role-playing works for you. Couples can also keep ice and warm tea nearby to create thrilling hot/cold sensations.