Men: Making It Too Complicated
All men can use a little refresher on this basic oral sex technique. Step 1: Bring your partner close with a pillow or your hand under her butt. Step 2: Kiss her vulva (that is the entire genital area down there) as you would her mouth. "That's, without a doubt, the simplest, most effective, most passionate and enthusiastic way that a guy can give oral sex to a woman," says Cadell.