Men: Sticking to Just One Task
Most women can have an orgasm from oral sex. Some women can reach climax after thirty seconds, but most require more time than that. Often, this is because they need something other than what's going on. "If she's not getting the right kind of stimulation, then she's going to take a long time," says Cadell. Along with switching up your tongue movement and asking her which she prefers, using your fingers to stimulate her during oral can make a big difference in the speed and intensity of her arousal.