Women: Keeping Quiet
"I think silence is the worst thing you can do, probably, when it comes to oral sex," says Cadell. Women, who are generally the more particular when it comes to their preferences, are also the more likely to stay zip-lipped. This doesn't get anyone what they want. It might take a while to get comfortable talking during sex if you aren't use to it, but this really matters. "You've got to have sexy, good, honest communication," says Cadell.