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#1 Best Job In America After 14 seasons and 7,004 passes, Brett Favre has earned the right to be called the hardest-working man in the NFL. It's easier if you love what you do, he says -- and if you follow his 10-point plan for getting (and keeping) your own dream job.
For much of the past decade and a half, however, Brett Favre has been that gator: the biggest ol' thing in the NFL's quarterback pool, dominating the league with his preternaturally strong arm, his laser-hot focus, his gunslinging style, and his roughneck toughness. As he enters his 15th NFL season, with a Super Bowl title and an unprecedented three most-valuable-player awards behind him, his name is floating in the top tiers of the record books, alongside Dan Marino, Fran Tarkenton, John Elway -- firmly ensconced in that rarefied upper strata of NFL legends, a shoo-in for the Hall of Fame in Canton, Ohio. The shoo-in role, however, is new to Brett Favre. Every yard he's gained -- on the field and off -- has left bruises. He was raised in a scruffy Gulf Coast town in Mississippi -- officially called Kiln but known locally, and phonetically, as "the Kill" -- where the lights downtown are limited to a single stoplight and the neon glow from the White Lightnin' Car Wash and Lee'Sure Time Video. Only one 1-A college, the University of Southern Mississippi just up the road in Hattiesburg, offered him a scholarship -- and that was to play defensive back. Before his senior season, and after a boozy night out on Ship Island, he fell asleep at the wheel of his car and flipped into a ditch, snapping a vertebra and requiring nearly three feet of his large intestine to be removed. A month later he led USM to a now-legendary 27-24 upset of Alabama. Still, his mercurial playing style and bad-boy edge darkened his chances for NFL stardom. Atlanta drafted him, but after Favre showed up drunk for practice a few times, head coach Jerry Glanville wouldn't let him near the field. The bruises didn't fade after Favre was traded to Green Bay. He entered drug rehab for an addiction to the painkiller Vicodin. His brother Scott was convicted of felony DUI after a car-train wreck that left his passenger dead. His sister Brandi was involved in a drive-by shooting. He battled a long and fearsome chain of injuries. Each of those, taken individually, might have been enough to sink a player, but Favre slogged through them. Slogged, of course, being an understatement: He led the Packers to two Super Bowls and left a string of smashed records in his rearview mirror. It wasn't always fancy. And it was hardly ever pretty. But the beer-killing country boy that Jerry Glanville once dismissed as a "car wreck" matured into one of pro football's most consistent and endearing icons: the shining model, for years to come, of what a quarterback can -- nah, should -- be. For a moment, set aside the breathless, how'd-he-do-that plays, the frostbitten crowds, the gobs of money, the shredded record booksset aside all that, and Brett Favre emerges not as the ultimate player but, rather, as the ultimate worker, a 35-year-old hardhat whose loyalty, tenaciousness, passion, leadership, and down-home work ethic make him an HR manager's walking, talking dream. With 225 consecutive starts, he's seven games away from doubling -- doubling, man -- Ron Jaworski's second-place record of 116 starts. He's played games with a separated shoulder, a deep thigh bruise, a bruised left hip, tendinitis, a sprained foot, a sprained ligament, a broken thumb. After 15 years of Sunday pummelings he wakes up a little creaky in the mornings, but Favre -- the working stiff's working stiff -- ain't backing down. Gridiron pundits have been speculating that this season will be Favre's last -- that if he can bow out strong, after last year's mangled season, bow out he will. Yet Favre is hinting otherwise, with an eye cocked toward 2006. This is partly because, for all his blue-collar mettle, Favre has never considered what he does "work." Years ago, midway through a cold, dirty slamfest, he exclaimed in a huddle: "Can you believe they pay us for this?" Because, for him, it's "not a job," he says. Not in the clock-punching, time-to-make-the-doughnuts sense. "It's a dream -- a dream come true," he says. "Being able to play in Green Bay, at Lambeau Field, and to throw touchdown passes -- it's hard to explain how much fun that is. And to have your name called out, to run out in Lambeau Field in front of 70,000 people, and to do that week in and week out. I know there's a lot of people who would kill to do what I do." Kill, possibly. At the very least, just to be able to talk about their job the way Favre talks about his, a large sector of the population might seriously entertain maiming someone. But, gentlemen, set aside your weapons. Over the course of breakfast, 18 holes, and one gator-baiting, Favre sketched out a step-by-step plan for landing and holding onto your own dream job, boiling down the hard-won lessons of 15 years on the field to an ironclad code of 10 rules. Whether you're hankering for a corner office or a Super Bowl ring, the Favre Method, consistently and muscularly applied, should yield it.
2. ...BUT BE REALISTIC
3. LISTEN TO YOUR COACH "I think the way I've always dealt with coaches is due to my dad having been a coach himself," he says. "Sons and dads always have their differences, of course, but there was still respect. You have to learn to respect your coach whether you agree with him or not. The coach is not always right, just as the players aren't always right. But there has to be a certain chain of command, and I'd argue that in every good business that's the way it works. You have to be coached. And whether you believe in what the coach is saying or not, sometimes the other guys around you have to see that respect. As soon as you start questioning the coach, especially in front of your teammates, you break down that chain of command."
4. FIND A GOOD MENTOR "Reggie definitely shaped me as a player," he says, "even though he was defensive lineman and I'm a quarterback, and you wouldn't think the two would relate. I learned a lot from him." Favre apprenticed under his coaches -- the Packers' Mike Holmgren, most importantly -- but Reggie White taught him something much deeper than X's and O's: He taught him how to live as a player, how to endure the tedium and the pressure, and gave him a role model. "He really loved the game. Look, practice sometimes is a bore, meetings are sometimes a bore, and it's tough getting on the bus and doing it over and over again. But he enjoyed doing it all. Hell, I learned a lot from him in that regard -- that you can make it as fun as you want, or as miserable as you want. And he chose to make it fun. To see a guy like Reggie, who'd been around a long time, was a shoo-in for Hall of Fame, and had achieved so many things -- to see him act like a big kid made you realize that you could be in your 14th or 15th year and still have a lot of fun. I try to relay that message to the guys -- that this can only last for so long, so make the most of it while you can."
5. SHOW UP. EVERY DAMN TIME
6. LEAD THE WAY "I get asked about my legacy a lot," he says. "I want people to remember me as a great teammate -- to me, that's the best compliment you can get. The only reason they keep statistics or records is so they can be broken, so whatever my statistics are, what do they matter? I want people to say that I played the game the way they would want to play it. Not that I had a strong arm, or could do this, or do that...there's always going to be someone like that, who can throw, who's got a strong arm, who can lift weights. But there's only so many guys who would lay it on the line for you. You know, I think about it all the time. I want the people sitting in the stands -- whether they're from Detroit or Chicago or somewhere else -- to say, 'You know, even though he plays for the enemy, I like the way he plays.' "
7. DON'T CHASE SUCCESS. LET IT CHASE YOU
8. WATCH YOUR BACK ('CAUSE STAYING AT THE TOP IS HARDER THAN GETTING THERE) Brett did stake it up -- for the next 13 seasons. "There's always someone to take your place, and it's usually someone new who they're paying a lot less money," he says. No degree of success, no accomplishment, secures your position forever. So the top of the hill, according to Favre, is precisely where the real climbing begins. "Once you get on top, it's time to really put your nose to the grindstone," he says. "I see so many guys get there, and then all of sudden they relax because now they're the starter and they think they're gonna stay there. "That's why success is probably the biggest reason guys fail. You see it every year: Someone has a little bit of success, and it leads them down the wrong path. They think, 'Man, this is awesome,' and then forget what got them there -- working out, preparing physically and mentally. You fight and scratch to get up there, but once you're up there, it's just the beginning. It's tough to get there -- but it's even tougher to stay there."
9. GIVE A LITTLE BACK "But you have to do it for the right reasons," he stresses. "Don't do it because you want people to think you're a good guy. I'm sure there's people out there doing that, and maybe thinking I'm doing that. But I've gotten to the point where I couldn't give a shit what people think about me. That's not what I'm here for."
10. WHAT DOESN'T KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER And he was spectacular that night, throwing for 399 yards -- three yards short of his career high -- and four touchdowns, leading Green Bay to a 417 rout of the Raiders, their worst loss in eight years. This is one of the curiosities of Brett Favre: He plays best when the whole world is crumbling around him. He's been called a "crunch-time genius" for his ability to pull out a game in the fourth quarter, to recover from a first-half pounding and seemingly yank comebacks from the thinnest of air, but it's not only a scoreboard deficit that sends Favre into one of his spiral-throwing spirals. The 1996 season saw him emerge from 46 days in a substance-abuse clinic and the arrests of his brother Scott and sister Brandi; that was the season he led the Packers to a Super Bowl victory in New Orleans. It's a curiosity even to Favre. "I don't know why I play so well when I'm under terrible stress, but I do," he says. "Not that I ever want terrible stress again. A game isn't worth all that." For Favre, crawling up under the house to die is never an option. Shit happens. You keep going. Click here for more Dream Jobs.
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