Listen, you need to have a big bottle of high-quality lube — not some cheap bargain brand — in easy reach of your bed. Look for a thick, water-based, organic lube that has real staying power. Silicon-based lube lasts longer, but when used with silicone toys, it can cause corrosion and for some women, vaginal yeast infections. Stay away from all-natural options such as coconut oil because they can cause latex condoms to break. And while we're at it: Stick with scentless and skip the flavors.