Sure, he isn’t as pretty as he was, but he is having more sex and attracting attention for his acting, not his antics. And if Rourke doesn’t nab an Oscar this time, so what? He’s going for one next year, too.
by Amy Wallace
Just a few months ago, mickey rourke was driving around Miami late one night, cruising the streets of his hometown, when his cell phone rang.
“Hey, it’s Bruce,” a familiar voice said, but at first Rourke couldn’t place it. “Springsteen,” the voice said. Rourke tears up a little when he remembers.
Rourke, who is 52, has known Springsteen for more than two decades — a span of time that includes at least a few of Rourke’s glory days and all of what he calls “my lost years.” During that period the actor basically told Hollywood to go fuck itself, became a not entirely unsuccessful professional boxer, got the shit beat out of him, and lost all traces of prettiness in his once-pretty face. Long before his recent comeback, he had found a good psychotherapist in the hopes, he says, of finally becoming — and this is a word he uses a lot — “accountable.”
Rourke has a lot to account for. Once he had been mighty. In the 1980s, Time magazine said he had the potential of a young Jack Nicholson, and New Yorker critic Pauline Kael praised his “edge and magnetism and…sweet, pure smile that surprises you. He seems to be acting to you, and to no one else.” With luck, she said, “Rourke could become a major actor.” Then he self-destructed. There were fistfights and violent marital squabbles (his ex-wife, the model Carré Otis, accused him of assault, then dropped the charges). There was prima donna behavior (he walked off a job because a producer wouldn’t let his beloved pet Chihuahua appear in a scene). There was poverty. And there were many truly awful movies.
Then, in 2007, a really good director named Darren Aronofsky picked Rourke for a great leading role: Randy “the Ram” Robinson, a broken-down pro wrestler at the end of his career. Unbelievably, considering how hard Rourke had worked to dismantle the enormous goodwill the movie industry once had for him, he was getting a second chance — “the last chance,” he tells me. “I’m not getting another pass. This is it.” And to make the most of that chance, a movie called The Wrestler, he reached out to the Boss for help.
“When we got done with the movie, I knew we nailed it. There was magic going on,” Rourke says of the film, for which he transformed his already powerful body, adding 35 extra pounds of muscle. “So I wrote Bruce a letter — a real long fucking truthful letter. And I said, ‘I’m so glad that I didn’t end up like Randy because, unlike me, Randy doesn’t have access to somebody who can help him to change.’ ”
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Rourke had poured his heart out, but still, when the phone rang that night in Miami, he was surprised. “Bruce said, ‘Listen, I wrote a little something,’ ” the actor recalls. The song, which shares the film’s title, plays as the credits roll, and its lyrics seem to perfectly capture Rourke’s breathtaking, backbreaking, and literally skin-perforating performance.
“Have you ever seen a one-legged dog making its way down the street?” Springsteen sings. “If you’ve ever seen a one-legged dog, then you’ve seen me.”
I ask Rourke how Springsteen teased out that central theme before the movie was even in the can. Rourke nods, knowing the answer. “He didn’t see the movie,” he says, “but he knows me.”
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I first met Rourke on a Sunday morning in September 2002, half a dozen years before anyone would think to put his name and “Academy Award” in the same sentence.
It was early, probably 7 am. That must be said out of fairness to Rourke, given what happened. And he was understandably tired, having spent days at the Toronto International Film Festival promoting a movie he didn’t like much called Spun. He’d only done Spun, he says now, because his new agent told him to, and in those days he was lucky to even have an agent.
So on that morning, when the agent, an earnest young man named David Unger, called Rourke’s room at Toronto’s Four Seasons to say he was waiting with an airport limo idling outside, Rourke didn’t say what he wanted to say. He didn’t tell Unger to leave without him because he was lying next to an incredible piece of ass. (“Oh, this girl,” he recalls now. “She was a fucking 12.”) Instead Rourke told himself, mantra-like, Can’t let the old Mickey come back, and got up, kissed the girl, grabbed his luggage and his favorite Chihuahua, Loki, and came downstairs.
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January 13th, 2009 at 9:13 pm
Great article. I guess that means hope is available, you just have to make it happen for yourself.
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rightwingrick Reply:
February 9th, 2009 at 10:21 am
Yep, and many have, including those who had family hanged for daring to disagree, bombed in their churches, kept out of good schools, “redlined” out of neighborhoods and kept in ghethos for generations, and treated like subhumans for two centuries. The capacity of humans to overcome is incredible.
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January 14th, 2009 at 8:42 pm
I for one am very happy to see that Mickey was able to pull himself up by the boot straps and give us all an outstanding and very powerful performance, garnering recognition from his peers and success. There is hope for everyone. Sometimes it just takes a very long talk with the “man in the mirror” to set things straight. Great article!
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January 15th, 2009 at 12:25 am
Mickey Rourke’s comeback story reminds me a lot of Robert Downey Jr. for some reason
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bimo Reply:
January 22nd, 2009 at 3:31 pm
did RDJr ever really disappear?
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January 20th, 2009 at 12:35 pm
the correct lyric is “have you ever seen a one-legged dog makin HIS way down the street”
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January 23rd, 2009 at 5:51 pm
Read this cover story at the barber shop today. Good writing, Amy. Saw the film and it’s an amazing performance worthy of an Oscar. So good luck, Mickey. You’ve come a long way, for sure!
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January 26th, 2009 at 3:42 pm
I am amazed that you consider making a comeback by how much sex someone is having. Maybe you should have sex with Mickey Amy and then you both could even tell everybody how much sex you’re having so everyone will know how successful you two are. Your language is truly something to be proud of as well. Do you feel it neccessary to use the F word to get your point accross? I tell ya you really have some class. Did you learn that word from your mother? Are you going to teach your children that word? Just curious!!!!
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Rae Reply:
March 15th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
Maybe you want to have sex with Amy.I bet you do!Do you want her mother and children there too?
Talk about no class.
FLICK.
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January 26th, 2009 at 5:30 pm
Way to go Mickey.
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January 29th, 2009 at 9:01 pm
very sad
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February 3rd, 2009 at 8:18 pm
Very candid and provocative article; I saw The Wrestler last week and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since. What a phenomenal performance by Mickey. I truly believe he is one of the most talented actors of our time. And despite what most people think about his new look, I for one think he’s really hot, considering what his body has been through in the last two decades or so. Hey, you gotta love a guy who rescues abused dogs; super sexy!
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February 9th, 2009 at 5:19 pm
Listen to sanctimonious Cy; probably another psycho Evangelical. Great story, great article; all he can care about is an fbomb. Go to church Cy!!
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March 25th, 2009 at 12:37 pm
Mickey deserved the Oscar, he was robbed!
But hopefully he’ll win one someday! He certainly has the talent.
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April 7th, 2009 at 5:56 pm
This man is astoundingly sexy! I didn’t get to see the movie but I ordered the DVD. I just luv looking at his picture. This man is incredible.
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May 19th, 2009 at 4:15 pm
Hmmm..
Was not crazy about Rourke the first time around. Seems smarmy to me. Maybe it just jealousy regarding his slathering of himself all over Basinger. Anyway, he’s got hard earned texture now, which makes me interesting, and bankable, if not wholly accountable (’twelve year old girl’?–unnecessarily glib) And as long as were talking about having sex with each other..yesh, I’d do Ms. Wallace too.
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January 13th, 2010 at 10:51 am
Hello from Wexford Ireland, I enjoyed the article. Very Good.
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