Food and sex go together like Brazil and bikinis. Sure, you might be perfectly fine to eat standing up and could care less about lighting. But if you’re looking to attract a woman, take her to a restaurant that sets the mood for romance: Try one of these hotspots from this year’s list of James Beard Awards Outstanding Restaurants in America. The nominees are rife for over-the-top Wall Street-style caloric indulgences, farm-to-table Meccas, and charmingly decadent Southern eateries. She’ll forget all about any Christian fantasies she’s harboring from the 50 Shades of Grey trilogy when you spoil her with mind-bendingly flavorful food eaten in trendy places.