Be Creative
Remember, it’s called arousal for a reason. “If you have meat and potatoes every day, it’s going to get real boring and it’s not going to work,” says Banner. “So you have to keep it interesting and exciting to allow it to be arousing and pleasurable.” For someone who really wants to spice things up, Banner suggests an erotic, exotic date where partners visit an adult toy store together, stop in for a couples massage, and end the night at a topless bar. That scenario isn’t for everyone but it illustrates the basic idea, which is to liven things up.
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