It’s Not All About the Orgasm
Overthinking sex is a nearly guaranteed way to take all the fun out of it. This can be a particular problem for men with a female partner because women tend to have a tougher time climaxing and some men see sex without orgasm as a failed endeavor. “The objective is not to get her turned on or to get her to orgasm but the objective is to find ways to give each other pleasure,” says Banner. Switching focus from end-results to general pleasure is much more likely to get both partners in a good place.
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