In this article, we’re covering 10 tips on how to give a girl head that will blow her mind.
Unless you’re looking for birds-and-the-bees-level info, sex can already be a hard topic to get quality, straightforward advice about. Trying to learn about oral sex can be especially challenging.
“It doesn’t get enough lip service, pun kind of intended,” says Shanna Katz, sexologist, sex educator, and author of Oral Sex That’ll Blow Her Mind: An Illustrated Guide to Giving Her Amazing Orgasms.
Everyone wants great sex to come naturally, but putting in some extra effort can make all the difference if you want to learn how to perform oral sex on a woman.
“It’s awesome for guys to say, ‘This is going to be part of my sexual repertoire,’ ” Katz says. “It shows you’re interested in your partner’s pleasure, which is something that makes you a great partner.” That’s what turns good sex into great sex. Think about it. You’re way more apt to be turned on during foreplay or sex when your partner is enjoying giving, not just receiving (think eye contact blowjob), so when you’re learning how to give a girl head, relish the experience, rather than harping on whether or not she orgasms.
Below you’ll find the best oral sex tips, but first, some advice: If you’re sexually active, you should practice safe sex, even if you’re solely engaging in oral sex. When you’re going down on a woman or receiving a blow job, you can use a dental dam—latex or polyurethane sheets used between the mouth and genitalia—to protect against the spread of STIs (sexually transmitted infections). This will ensure good sexual health.
If you’re experiencing emotional blocks that are preventing you from connecting with your partner, consider seeking our a sex therapist, a licensed professional, who can help you work through any emotional or mental issues that are inhibiting your sex life.
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