Week 2: Getting to Know Her
This is the week of getting to know the girl you met, making more of an effort, rearranging your schedule and finding some cool spots to take her. This is also the time to show her what a great kisser you are. “Be a good listener, ask questions, be conscientious and demonstrate interest,” says Morse. “Take it slow. You should plan an outing somewhere or a daytime date that’s lighter, easier and casual. Don’t get overzealous when getting to know them. Don’t make plans for the future just yet. Women want a guy that is into them, but you don’t want to be too overbearing because that’s also a turn-off.”
Don’t go overboard.
You don’t need to take her to the fanciest restaurant, pull up in the nicest car or jet to Europe. Women are more impressed with small gestures that let you know you care. Be a conversationalist and ask questions. You could attract a gold digger if you lead with your wallet and grand gestures that don’t mean anything.
Make her feel special and compliment her. (Be specific.)
The lamest thing you can tell a woman: “You are so beautiful.” Find a new line. Something that pertains to her as an individual. Try using compliments like, “I love the way you laugh,” or “I love that you have a dimple each time you smile. It’s adorable.”
Don’t talk about your exes yet.
Who wants to hear about a past relationship in any capacity during the first few dates? Let’s face it: Women are jealous and want to feel special. You can tell us about exes down the road, but, for now, stick to the basics.
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