Week 4: Rules About Sex
Make sure she climaxes, too.
Try not to get off and then go to sleep. If you don’t know if the woman had an orgasm or not, ask her. Hopefully, she will tell you the truth. You should be as invested in her needs as you are in your own. Be an attentive lover and give back. Always return the favor. She will appreciate it. Sometimes though, it is hard to get a woman off vaginally. Ask her for some pointers if you can’t figure it out.
Don’t pretend to like her in order to get laid.
Sex is great, but not if you aren’t on the same page. If the woman is really into you but you see her as a sex buddy, there’s a problem. Be upfront about your intentions. Who knows? She may feel the same, but have been hesitant to admit it. Better to know what’s going on, for both of your sakes.
If you aren’t in the mood for sex, explain why.
Some of you may be thinking, “When does this ever happen?” But there are times when you drank too much and can’t get it up or you have a big day in the morning or you’re just too tired and can’t get into sex headspace. Whatever the case may be, please explain what’s going on. Otherwise, we think we did something wrong. That’s never a good thing.
Don’t score and run.
If you are willing to use the bed for sex, use it for sleeping next to her. I don’t care if her bed is uncomfortable, it’s too loud outside or you enjoy sleeping alone. Women like cuddling afterward. Get over it.
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